What Google Gets Wrong About Autism: Science, Hope and Practical Support for Parents and Caregivers

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What if autism is more than what we see?

In this thought-provoking episode of the Able to Care Podcast, Andy Baker is joined by Dr Theresa Lyons, PhD, to explore autism beyond behaviour and diagnosis. Together, they unpack the gap between mainstream understanding and emerging science – and what that means for families, caregivers and professionals.

This conversation challenges common assumptions and offers a more nuanced, hopeful and practical approach to supporting children and adults with autism.

Rethinking autism: beyond labels and assumptions

Autism is often defined purely through behaviour – communication differences, repetitive patterns and sensory challenges. But what if those behaviours are only the surface?

Dr Lyons explains how autism diagnosis is based on observation rather than biology, and why this can limit understanding. She introduces a perspective that considers underlying health, environment and neurological factors that may influence behaviour, communication and wellbeing.

Key themes explored in this episode

Andy and Theresa discuss:

• Why much of the information online about autism may be outdated or incomplete
• The difference between diagnosis, identity and individual experience
• How behaviour can be a form of communication – especially when speech is limited
• The concept of “biology behind behaviour” and why it matters in behaviour support
• How health factors such as diet, inflammation and environmental exposure may impact development
• The role of sensory processing and why it should not be dismissed as “just autism”
• Why some individuals may be misunderstood as having lower cognitive ability due to communication barriers
• How parents can make informed, evidence-based decisions without feeling overwhelmed

From overwhelm to informed action

For many parents and caregivers, receiving an autism diagnosis can feel like the end of the road – with little guidance on what to do next. This episode reframes that experience.

Rather than offering quick fixes, Andy and Theresa explore how to move from fear and confusion to curiosity and informed decision-making. They emphasise the importance of understanding patterns, asking better questions and avoiding one-size-fits-all approaches.

Practical insights for everyday support

• Use the question: Why this, why now? to understand behaviour
• Look for patterns, not just incidents (ABC approach)
• Consider both behaviour and biology when supporting a child
• Avoid labels that limit understanding and reinforce bias
• Focus on progress, not perfection – small changes can matter

A message for parents, carers and educators

This episode offers a grounded but hopeful message: you don’t have to have all the answers straight away. It’s okay to pause, to question, and to explore what might be right for your child or the person you support.

Most importantly, Andy and Theresa remind us that behaviour does not define the person. On their best days, you see who they truly are – and the goal is to support more of those days.

Who this episode is for

• Parents navigating an autism diagnosis
• Foster carers and caregiving professionals
• Teachers and SEN staff
• Anyone interested in trauma-informed practice and behaviour support
• Adults exploring their own neurodivergent experiences

Final takeaway

Autism is complex, and there is no single pathway. But with curiosity, compassion and access to the right information, it is possible to better understand behaviour, support wellbeing and help individuals thrive in their own way.